Just a blog about BS [Being Single]
Unpacking the Bag[gage] Proverbs 18:2 “Fools find no pleasure in understanding but delight in airing their own opinions.” It has been a while since I’ve been writing. Well, that is not true, it has been a while since I’ve posted. Why? Because I was feeling insecure about my work. It is all in good time, and …
The Happy Post: Closure or Not, Be Fluid as Water Peace is essential to me, and unfortunately, I connect peace with understanding. Relinquishing the control aspect of understanding has been crucial for my homeostasis of happiness. There are a lot of things, people, and experiences that have helped me realize this, however, in this blog, …
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Hope is a beautiful word: Finding joy in expectancy. Be gentle to yourself, love is a basic need: Here is the thing, we need love. Romantic love is a unique type of love that one can experience. We have love from our family, friends, animals. Love is felt for our job [maybe], and experienced in …
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Worthy of Authenticity “Allow yourself to show up authentically from the start and assess whether or not this person is moving on the same frequencies as you. If you are being performative and altering how you show, you will need to continue to be the character that you have created.” Reject Toxic Dating Expectations: * …
The Toxic Love Loop This post is one of my favorites- I can tell already. I read the book Atomic Habits. While the book is about making small changes to see an incredible transformation in various habitual behavior, it sparked a whole new wave of thought around relationships for me. It was incredible, and it …
Giving Grace While Processing Heartbreak Let’s talk about your feelings. There is no one way to deal with heartbreak. It is a unique journey, just as unique as the relationship you were part of. No matter the circumstance of the breakup, if it hurts, and it is hard, you deserve grace. The critical factor discussed …
The Vulnerable Post: Heartbreak Hurts